and she said that I should try to habituate and get used to it. I'm not sure if your friend meant you should get used to people being clingy? or the idea of eventually getting married yourself? Either way, I do not agree! Just because other people sometimes have a hard time conceptualizing how someone might be happy outside of a traditional heterosexual marriage or whatever, that is not a good reason for you personally to change. You are who you are, and you are lovely.
Oh my god, EPITHETS. I will sometimes let a couple go with a wince, but more than a couple and I backclick like whoa. /o\
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and she said that I should try to habituate and get used to it. I'm not sure if your friend meant you should get used to people being clingy? or the idea of eventually getting married yourself? Either way, I do not agree! Just because other people sometimes have a hard time conceptualizing how someone might be happy outside of a traditional heterosexual marriage or whatever, that is not a good reason for you personally to change. You are who you are, and you are lovely.
Oh my god, EPITHETS. I will sometimes let a couple go with a wince, but more than a couple and I backclick like whoa. /o\